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Breakfast With a View



The point of this outing was to breakfast with a view. It began with a side of misunderstanding. A view we had, from a vantage point up in the clouds of the office block where James worked, what I hadn’t realized was that James had asked whether I’d like a bacon bun from a local cafe or a wrap from the office canteen. I opted for a bacon bun from the local cafe which meant extra time out of his work day, unbeknownst to me. Not only that, he carved time out of his frenetic working day to have lunch we me as well from a different vantage point overlooking the southern view from of his office block. He made time for me! I’m supposed to be making time for us. Which I am, but James proved to be more than willing to go the extra mile in making our dates superb! 

I made my own way home after lunch, traversing the 40-odd kilometre’s via train, Metro and car once more. James took the sedate bus ride home later that evening with a demure driver happy to deliver his passengers sans hair raising ride.

My husband was emerging as a man I knew not. Even in our younger years of dating and being newlywed, though I loved him passionately then, I was uncovering a love of softness, caring and appreciation. Those aspects were always there, but not always evident in the toll of life, love and family. We took the long way round, the scenic route, and it was proving to be way more beneficial than we could ever have imagined.

The view was way better.

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Elora is a relationship writer with tips that empower you to build greater relationship success.

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