My Secret Weapon

Fast Track Your Relationship Success

I’ll admit straight off that relationships are complex, but I can guarantee one secret weapon you need, for relationship success.


“We do not see the world as it is, we see it as we are.”
Anaïs Nin

You are your own secret weapon in every relationship you encounter.

The deeper you know yourself, the happier your relationships will be.

Know your triggers.

Know your boundaries.

Know your deal breakers.

If you know those things intimately about yourself, you have the power to steer your choices in the direction of your happiness.

When you know yourself so well, you understand your own perspective more clearly. You understand why you are hurt by someone’s words or actions because it originates in your psyche. Your thoughts about that situation.

I’m not discounting the fact that there are hurtful people in the world, I am exemplifying your strength of character to navigate your perspective inwards.

Understand that you can only be hurt if you believe the perspective of the other.


If you, or someone you know, is struggling with self-esteem or struggling in a relationship, please reach out for help. I’ve attached a worldwide link for anyone across the globe.

To learn more about my 35 year marriage success, join me here Elora Canne, on Instagram so we can chat there.

Or if you’d prefer, ask me any questions you have about relationship success, in the comments below.

I look forward to connecting with you.

Stay true and always be you ❤


Location: Sydney NSW, Australia
Elora is a relationship writer with tips that empower you to build greater relationship success.

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