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So far, you have followed mine and James' progress into blissful mid-life marriage. You've read of our ups and downs through our relationship success, and now I'm overjoyed to share that I've created an ebook for you from our Date Year experiences!


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It's the sequel to my memoir, out later this year, but gives the backstory to our tumultuous young beginnings and into keeping the spark alive through three and a half decades together. It has the same title as the blog, Creating Sparks that Last by Elora Canne.

It's available for preorder today, at the link below.

I want in! 


Here's a Cheeky Joke to Make You Smile

It's an old joke that people tell: Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place. - From Tonja Vallin in her article The Surprising Benefits of Holding Hands - Including Better Sex

Here's the full article if you're interested It's an informative look at the differences in the way males and females perceive connection.

In Other News

Here on the blog, my subscription provider, Feedburner, is undergoing maintenance and there is a chance that my loyal readers will be lost to me. As noted in the image below, their notification states the distinct possibility of losing my blog family. 



For that reason, I am requesting your permission to add my registered subscribers to my Mailerlite account. Please comment below, or privately in the menu bar, whether you agree or not - and if not, no hard feelings, we all need to look after ourselves as best we know how, so I understand completely.

If you've not yet subscribed to the blog, Creating Sparks that Last, I invite you to join our reader family via the Mailerlite form below: (Please be patient while it is in the beta stage - it says ‘Newsletter’ but it’s only for this blog).






Elora is a relationship writer with tips that empower you to build greater relationship success.

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