Ready to Smash 2023?

Let’s rethink the 2023 buzz…

What if there’s no reason to change anything;

No reason to want things to be different.

What if there’s no reason to work towards a goal;

No reason for New Year’s resolutions.

Sound good?



My fur-niece, Topaz Binky, agrees!


What if you like— no, LOVE the way you are, exactly as you are.

There is no reason to buy into the hype.

ICYMI - There. Is. No reason to buy into the hype!

You get to shine as brightly as you are. Of course, I’m not advocating stagnation because 

growth is the new humankind. 

But you get to grow at your own pace. Not when the New Year tells you to.

So ditch the phony New Year’s resolutions, ditch the societal expectations and pressured-into goals. Find your own tendrils of new growth, unfurl deliciously slowly, leisurely, savoring the softness of life’s gentle awakening - all will come good, in your own time; in your own way.

Let’s cheer together: I AM ME IN 2023!


Not a new me, not a better me— ME exactly as I am.


If this stirred a feeling of triumph in you, drop a HELL YEAH in the comments!


See you in November 💃


If you want to know more about how I found my personal power, you’ll find it in my memoir:

EN ROUTE The Best Is Yet To Be


And if you’d love to know how we’re still rocking our marriage after almost 4 decades together, read our inspiring Date Year journal here:

Creating Sparks that Last eBook


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Location: Sydney NSW, Australia
Elora is a relationship writer with tips that empower you to build greater relationship success.

Comments

  1. Maria Costanzo PalmerOctober 28, 2022 at 10:03 AM

    Hell yeah!! I agree no need to wait for the new year to grow and improve. Change is constant!! Love this. ❤️

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    1. EloraOctober 28, 2022 at 10:06 AM

      I love your take on it: change is constant!

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